I find it so upsetting that a girl and a guy can't be close friends without 10 people saying 10 things. Yes I like him. He's my friend, I wouldn't talk to him if I didn't like him. But that's all there is to it, and some people just can't understand such a simple thing. Is it that wrong to befriend a guy? In what way does that make me a bad person/bad lady ? I didn't do anything bad. If friendship is a bad thing, then yeah everyone on Earth does something bad everyday by befriending someone.
Secondly, it is pretty unsettling that in this era with all the hype about 1Malaysia, people still have problems when a person of their race mixes not with their race but with a group of people who are of another race. Can people be any less shallow? When will people start looking at the content of one's heart (and brains too) rather than the colour of one's skin? If a person of your race hangs out with another race, it just goes to show that she's not as shallow as you people are, that she evaluates a person by their character and not their colour. So be it if she chooses to hang out with another race, in what way does that affect your life?
Barack Obama is the first African-American President the United States of America has ever seen. Had be been judged for the colour of his skin, he wouldn't be where he is today.
"Change will not come if we wait for some other person or if we wait for some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek."
That was quoted from his speech in Chicago. That was change right there when he said we are the ones we've been waiting for, we are the change that we seek.
Quoting Sir Bob Geldof during YES2009 (Youth Engagement Summit 2009, held in Putrajaya International Convention Centre) :
We're all living in world that needs change. Conventional thinking got us here today and we need radical, unconventional thinking to get us out. If you can be unconventional and radical, you can be right.
She's unconventional in her thinking. She mixes with everyone regardless of the colour of their skin. So what? She is the change that she seeks. We, the leaders of tomorrow, have got to be unconventional. We have got to be the change that we seek.
Statistics show that almost half of the world (which accounts to about 3 billion people) live on less than $2.50 a day (source = global issues). Every year, people spend 350 billion on cigarettes, 400 billion on barbie dolls and 600 billion on lipsticks — yet here we sit, worrying about who mixes with who when there are so much more to worry about in this world. Only when one finally realises the fact that every single problem in this world is a global problem will one really be concerned and bothered about change.
Another pretty upsetting thing is this : Can't girls go walking at night? Is walking at night strictly reserved for only men? This is the 21st century yet I can't walk to see a friend at 1am inside my campus accommodation without having people pass rude remarks. What's becoming of this world? Women have ventured into space as early as 1963 (Valentina Tereshkova was the first) and yet we have not opened our minds up? Are you people still living in the era where women were supposed to sit at home doing household chores while men went out to work? We're studying in a UNIVERSITY.
It's upsetting to hear your own friends utter such stuff about you. Have you people heard of this saying?
"Just going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than standing in your garage makes you a car." — G.K. Chesterton
Well, here's a refined version that explains my stand :
"Staying at home doesn't make you a good girl any more than standing in your garage makes you a car." — Sasi Rekha Ravi
No one gives you the right to judge another individual based on your perception of how an individual should be. Why should I conform to your ideas of how a lady should be? My parents did a successful job in bringing me up. I know what's right and wrong, I have my own set of limitations and boundaries that I live by. These are of my own, and in no way at all do I have to conform to your ideologies.
I ask of you to not pass crude judgements when you barely know a person, for that would only reflect on who you are as a person. We are all different in our own ways, none too perfect for the other but we're all perfect in God's image. Learn not to criticise and condemn, but to understand and accept others as individuals who are fully aware of rights and wrong, individuals who are capable of making decisions for themselves.
I hope this post offended none — I hope instead that it opened up the eyes of some. Ignorance, indifference, apathy and racism — get rid of them. Let's all be the change that we seek. Let's all be radical, unconventional and RIGHT!
Loves.
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